Yuu's days　

Grandparents, well I'm lucky enough to have at leas one of them. Grandmother, from my dad's side. Others? All became guardian angels even before my existence.

First of all, I must thank linkages. Their Selfie contest inspired me to write this. I feel that I must write this down and share with my grandma story with everyone. The contest is that, you have to take a selfie with the elder or senior citizen, be it your grandparents, parents, relatives, neighbours, boss, teachers or anyone elder than you, capture their Wisdom or Inspiring stories on Tradition & Culture OR Roots & Heritage OR Traditional Knowledge in a caption less than 50 words. So I did! And the selfie was taken when I was in KL just a week ago to celebrate my dear granny's 87th birthday

So when I saw the prizes of the contest of the contest is cash and 1st prize is RM 2k, I'm determined to win it and use the money to buy her a wheelchair. I can't be at her side but that's the least I can do. Yes, my family can afford it, but I, myself want to do something for her, for the least that I could.
But when I look at the theme I was like...... oh...... neither granny nor my parents are anyone special on that, or maybe just I don't understand them that much. Of course they are full of wisdom, in everyday life and the way of life and stuff but, I think most of us, we are just ordinary people leading ordinary life. They might be NOONE to the world, but they are SOMEONE in my world.

However, I've decided to post the photo of me with my granny, and share her story.

There's time when we are down and drowned in negative emotions. All you can feel is sadness, hatred, anger, frustration, so blue that you can only see bad things in life, people and everything. I'm not gonna lie that I'm a perfect person who only see good things in life coz this happens to me too.

The previous post about the one and only child was truly the time that I was frustrated and I dug out all the bad things about some friends and I sincerely apologizes for that but I'm not gonna deny it as it is the fact of what I truly felt. However, after calming and cheering up myself, those good memories of these friends being so helpful and caring in my life flashing back like a movie. Then, I realize, I was blinded by the negative emotions.

During these time, we tend to say bad words hurting people or make bad decisions, and when we realize, it's always (most of the time) too late to amend our mistakes. We tend to overlook the goodness as we enlarge the bad side so much it covers up the good side. It's just like when you hate someone, everything he/she does seems wrong to you and just make you feel angry.

SO, moral of the story is, when you feel that that is the time, take a step back, distract yourself and do something else, preferably something that will make you happy, THEN do whatever you should do or say whatever you should say regarding that matter or person. Don't do or say anything silly that you will regret after that.

I'm not sure whether is it me or it's just that, a few of those only child in the family always gave me this self-centered kind of attitude feeling when I'm with them. Of course not all of them but like I said, a few. They always talk about themselves, eg. complain that no one celebrate their birthday but we did send greetings and even did early celebration, you don't find them or chat with them (well they don't find you back either), always and mostly waiting other to take the 1st step, not helping in cleaning after a party that everyone organize together and act like you should do it instead, or complain that the event was not planned nicely but they don't help out.

looks like I just listed out a lot...... I'm not that kind of person that mind all doing the work and those who know me they all do, because in the end of any party or gathering, most of the time, I'm the one cleaning and and being the bad guy making others finish the food that no one wants to bring home anymore. It's not like I love to do it, it's just that someone HAS TO do it or things will never get settled. They'll just give me this "why are you forcing me to finish this shit" , HELLO!!! cause you all just sit there chatting endlessly and and none took the initiative to clean up the mess! and I just feel so bad to see the friend who borrow his/her place for the event have to clean up the mess all by his/herself.

Well of course there are friends who help out, and I notice most of them, base on my experience, always a friend not from the one-child-family. I notice some of us always take up these aftermath chores, or helping since the beginning until the end, but some doesn't even help a bit every single time.

However, we still hangout together everytime. From time to time, things are still the same and it's kinda like an endless loop. Hai.......

Sorry for the long wait~! here comes the 2nd part of my adventure!!!!

So~ it was a few days trip, and everything was fine and just as good as ever~
AND! the most exciting part is the last day of the trip!

The entrance~

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Grand Tokyo-Taipei~ the name of the building~

WE stayed in a 民宿 in 西门町 which the rooms there aren't bad. It's kinda like an apartment, with security at the front door. The place is quite convenient too, so seems to be a good pace to rest for a night. We separated into a few groups and go whatever place we wanna go.

The brothers who didn't bring their slipper and decided to wear the slippers provided by the hotel =.=

Here we are~  西门町

dinner time~ 便当style

苦瓜汁 is a must when we come  西门町

This is the 2nd time I go Taiwan~ What makes it diff is that...... THIS one is FREAKING adventurous! Hahahahah XD why would I say so? Here's the story, and it's gonna be long~~

今日、LAJクラスの友達のお母さんが亡くなった。吃驚した、でも同時に心が悲しいです。いつも笑顔で私たちと一緒にいたの彼は、今、どんな顔してるんだろう。きっとすごっく悲しいだろう。